Have you been going through a internal battle? The energy at the moment is really forcing us to look inside to see whats really going on... No more pretending we are ok while forcing down the real emotions that we will do anything to avoid.
When we let go of our internal battles and open our heart to things as they are, then we come to rest in the present moment. Only in this moment can we discover our truth without attachment to the past or the future..
This is especially true if you are focusing on an ex or someone you can't have, or waiting for 'the one' to save you from yourself..
Only here can we find the love that we seek....
Love in the past is simply memory.. and one we change over time to be much more epic and amazing then what it really was.. OR we will twist stories around to support the bitterness we hold..Memory is funny that way..
And love in the future is just a fantasy... yet here many people spend most of there vital force energy trying to build something without having the right tools to maintain what they are building in this fantasy land (even if it shows up), because the wounds you carry will express themselves again and again until you come back to the Now and build from their..
So if you do not love yourself now, you will not love yourself in a relationship and you will be forever trying to hold on to someone or holding back parts of yourself you don't feel are loveable.
Only in the reality of the present can we love, can we awaken, can we find peace and understanding and connection with ourselves and the world.
Your relationship to yourself is the most important one you will ever have and the only one you should ever put first... This means the people you have and love in your life will always get the highest version of you.. including your kids, lover, mother etc
If you feel you need something to help you through these frequencies, check out 'what to expect from a Soul Reading and Clearing From me' up the top of my page. So much love, Paula